The simple truth about premature ejaculation is, many men struggle with it and have no idea how to handle it. Some men are not even sure whether they do issues with this sexual dysfunction. So how can you access this problem and what's more, is it at all possible to control premature ejaculation?
When could you have considered a premature ejaculator?
There are some men that ejaculate the second they make penetration or just a couple of thrrust there after. This is certainly classed as PE. If you are a man that reaches climax within the first minute after penetration, this is a premature ejaculation. If you ejaculate after a few minutes, this is not a PE, you may just racing to the gate and this is down to self control and your mindset. If you are reaching your climax in a few minutes, you have enough time to take control of the situation and to prolong it, if you really want to. If you asked your partner whether you should slow down some, I am sure you know what her answer would be! However, all is not lost and it really is not hard to control premature ejaculation.
Talking about asking your partner, let us face it, she should take priority and you should hold back at least, until she has come to an orgasm or is close to it. I know that there are men out there that say they can not control premature ejaculation until their partner has come to climax. We would be talking roughly between 5 to 20 minutes for most women. That makes it easy to understand why a huge percentage of women are not happy in their sex life. This clearly does not mean that she has no feelings for him however, she is left alone with her emotions and fantasies and when this happens repeatedly, the situation can take a turn for the worst and have a massive effect on the relationship.
How can we control premature ejaculation and satisfy our partner?
Some men take to the pharmaceuticals and use pills, creams and sprays that can be purchased on the high street in drug stores and adult erotic shops. These desensitizing products most certainly do work however, they can be very expensive and they do not give you a long term solution to your problem. There is then another problem that arises when using these products. They work on the simple basis, in that they numb your genitals, stop you from getting aroused and reaching your climax to quick. You just will not have as much fun with sex as you did before and that having been said, would your partner really enjoy it?
As I mentioned earlier, a great way to work around your PE would be to concentrate entirely on your partner. Make sure she is sexually aroused and maybe even short before her orgasm before you even think of penetration. Use everything you have to your disposition, fingers, tongue and mouth and full body contact to get her aroused before you jump into the final act. It really is a mindset thing and if you really wish to please her above all and put yourself in second place, the 5 to 25 minutes most women need can be reduced drastically reduced. You can train to control premature ejaculation if you really want to know how!
Some men just want to penetrate and get into top gear before she even knows what happens. The penis is the last thing she needs to arousse her sexually. Plenty of foreplay and oral sex is a great way to start and if you stay aware of what's happening around you and build her sexual participation to the max, you will know when your time has come.
There are no problems, there are only solutions!
If you suffer from premature ejaculation and really want to take control of the situation, leave your penis out of play until the last minute. Satisfy your partner. Find out what she likes and wants. Take control of the situation with her in mind and at the last minute, you can race to the final goal. Premature Ejaculation is not as complicated as most men think and I kid you not, with a little effort on your part, it is possible to control premature ejaculation.